Discover the “Flow” and Become Laser Focused

Flow is more than a buzzword – it’s a state of being. It’s when productivity or action becomes effortless and time bends around you. There’s no hesitation. No second-guessing. Just pure, uninterrupted momentum. In the 1990s, Hungarian-American psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi defined it as the “optimal experience.” High performers know it as “the zone”. I call it laser focus – and I access it every single day.

Here’s what’s wild: when you’re in flow, your inner critic goes offline. Blood flow to the prefrontal cortex – the part of your brain that overthinks and hesitates – actually decreases. In its place? Heightened dopamine, endorphins and a deep, instinctive awareness. You become more present, more effective, more you. And because it feels good, your brain craves to return.

Strategies

Design Your Deep Work Window

Set aside 90 minutes just for you – no meetings, no messages, no interruptions. Close your tabs, grab your noise-cancelling headphones, and put your phone on airplane mode. Choose one clear goal for this time. When you’re new to this process, the first 15 minutes might feel tough, but hang in there – you’ll start to hit your stride around minute 18, and that’s when the magic begins.

Set the Right Challenge Level

Flow loves a good challenge – just enough to keep you on your toes, but not so much it feels overwhelming. Pick something a little outside your comfort zone. If it’s too easy, you’ll get bored; too hard, and it gets stressful. Aim for a challenge that feels like a 8 out of 10 – interesting enough to pull you in, but never too much to handle.

Use a Starting Ritual

Give your brain a gentle signal that it’s time to focus. Maybe light a candle, turn on your favourite playlist, take a few deep breaths, or sip your go-to tea. These small rituals let your mind know it’s work time – the more often you repeat them, the quicker you’ll slip into flow.

Eliminate “Open Loops”

Unfinished tasks steal attention. Write them down. Capture them. Then close the file. Flow likes clarity. Your mind doesn’t trust you to focus until it knows those other things won’t be forgotten.

Create Consequence

Flow needs a sense of urgency – so set a clear deadline, tell someone your goal, or start a timer. Make a commitment! When there’s something real at stake, like your time or a little friendly accountability, you’ll find it so much easier to slip into flow.

Let Go of Outcome

Flow thrives on process, not pressure. Set the intention to do, not achieve. Instead of “I must finish this article,” try “I’ll enjoy writing for 45 minutes.” Paradoxically, this detachment speeds results and reduces resistance.

Track Your Triggers

When did you last feel totally absorbed? Look back. Was it quiet? Challenging? Physical? Emotional? Start to build a personal map of your flow patterns. The more you know your entry points, the faster you can return to them.

Use Movement to Enter Flow Faster

Take a brief walk, a few minutes of deep breathing, or another form of physical movement. These activities help quiet the default-mode network (DMN) – essentially the brain’s “autopilot” system – and support a state of focused presence, which is essential for entering flow.

Conclusion

Flow isn’t a mystery – it’s a mindset, a rhythm and a skill. It isn’t about working harder, it’s about working more honestly – with full presence, heart and focus. It’s how you switch off distraction and turn on your true brilliance. This week, design your flow window. Honour it like a sacred appointment. And watch what happens.

Ponderings

  • What kind of work makes me lose track of time?
  • Where in my day could I create space for flow?
  • What distracts me most – and how can I eliminate it?
  • How might my life feel, if flow became normal?

Resources

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Engage with Success. Paul Becque. Certified Mindset Trainer, Transformational Coach and Speaker

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