by admin | attention, connection, Emotions, expectation, faith, Grace, guidance, Inner Peace, intention, self-realisation, self-reflection, self-regulation, State of Grace, thriving
The Festive Mindset Lesson You Were Never Told The Santa Story isn’t really about a man in a red suit – it’s a reminder of abundance, intentional expectation, and how simple it can be to receive. Children do this so naturally: they live from openness and joy,...
by Paul Becque | attention, authenticity, clarity, confidence, connection, education, expectation, Grace, habits, Inner Peace, Mental Health, Mindset, self-recognition, self-reflection, self-reverence, thriving, trust, Uncategorized
The Identity Shift that Quietly Transforms Success Most people chase success like it’s something they have to catch and hold onto. But the real breakthrough happens when you stop gripping so tightly and start focusing on what you can genuinely contribute. Becoming a...
by Paul Becque | connection, Emotions, Fear, grit, habits, Mental Health, Mindset, overwhelm, procrastination, relationships, self-recognition, self-reflection, self-regulation, State of Grace
Anger is the Smoke. The Fuel Lies Beneath. You’ll often find that anger isn’t really about what’s happening right now. Gaining mastery over your inner state – your thoughts, feelings and behaviours – begins with noticing how your internal world influences...
by Paul Becque | action, action steps, attention, confidence, Fear, grit, imposter syndrome, intention, procrastination, self-recognition, State of Grace, strategies
Why You’re Resistant to Good Opportunities? There’s a phenomenon I see constantly with entrepreneurs, creators and visionaries: they think they’re struggling with motivation, but what they’re really facing is identity fatigue. When the self-image you’ve lived with...
by Paul Becque | attention, Grace, grit, Inner Peace, Mindset, Neurochange, self-recognition, self-regulation
How to Stop ANTs (Automatic Negative Thoughts) Most people think negative thoughts appear because something’s wrong with them. They don’t realise these thoughts are learned patterns – old echoes, not new truths. Automatic Negative Thoughts (ANTs) fire quickly,...
by Paul Becque | authenticity, confidence, education, Fear, imposter syndrome, Inner Peace, Mental Health, Mindset, overwhelm, procrastination, Self Care, self-recognition
Why You Still Feel Like You’re Faking It There is a specific moment many entrepreneurs never talk about. The moment when results start to appear… yet doubt gets louder. Imposter syndrome isn’t a lack of talent. It’s an old internal identity that hasn’t caught up with...
by Paul Becque | business, entrepreneur, expectation, faith, Grace, habits, intention, Mindset, quantum mechanics, self-reflection, State of Grace, thriving, trust
Money Mirrors You, Long Before it Supports You This year, I’ve heard from many clients about the financial challenges they’ve faced and their aspirations for greater freedom with money. It’s important to understand that your financial circumstances...
by Paul Becque | attention, connection, Emotions, expectation, faith, Grace, guidance, Inner Peace, intention, metaphysics, Neuroscience, quantum mechanics, self-reflection, strategies, thriving
Reality Mirrors Your Emotional State Recently, a client asked me, “If I’m always focused on finding problems and potential dangers, why doesn’t my life reflect those back at me?” You might have wondered about something similar. The key is recognising that reality...
by Paul Becque | Emotions, evolve, Grace, guidance, Inner Peace, Mindset, remember, self-reflection, State of Grace, strategies
Self-Reflection: Seeing Yourself in Life’s Mirror Most people think self-reflection means sitting quietly, journaling about their week or contemplating who they are and what they’ve done. But within the ENGAGE model, Self-Reflection means something far more literal...
by Paul Becque | action, action planning, action steps, clarity, evolve, intention, nirvana, Productivity, strategies, success, thriving
Beyond Identity: Becoming Your Future Self To create real change, you need to do more than think differently – you need to become someone new. True transformation begins beneath the surface, when your subconscious mind feels truly safe to let go of old patterns...
by Paul Becque | confidence, education, evolve, grit, habits, imposter syndrome, Inner Peace, intention, Mindset, Neurochange, Neuroscience, overwhelm, Productivity, strategies, success, thriving, Uncategorized
Information Isn’t Transformation – Here’s the Bridge You’ve read the books, listened to podcasts, underlined life-changing lines. Yet somehow, little actually changes. It’s not because you’re lazy or unmotivated – it’s because learning is safe while action...
by Paul Becque | attention, clarity, confidence, connection, expectation, Grace, intention, nirvana, State of Grace, strategies, success
Life By Design, Not By Default Taking control of your life isn’t about being perfect or pushing yourself too hard – it’s about giving yourself the freedom to make choices that truly matter to you, instead of letting circumstances or other people decide your...
by Paul Becque | attention, authenticity, clarity, connection, intention, Mindset, Productivity, strategies, success
Five Steps to Change Your Attitude Your attitude is not predetermined. It is a combination of your emotions, thoughts, habits and underlying beliefs that influence how you approach each day. A simple change in perspective – from focusing on problems to...
by Paul Becque | attention, clarity, confidence, connection, Emotions, Fear, Grace, grit, guidance, habits, intention, Mindset
Attention is Wealth… Are You Spending it Wisely? Hello friend, attention extends beyond mere focus – it is your most valuable asset. The way you allocate it determines your priorities, channels your energy and shapes your identity. However, media,...
by Paul Becque | action, action steps, Grace, Leadership, Mindset, overwhelm, procrastination, self-regulation
Your Habits and Daily Rituals are Your Destiny We often see our future selves as the result of a dramatic, sudden transformation. In reality, meaningful change is far more subtle – and profoundly impactful. Our destinies are not shaped by rare, momentous events,...
by Paul Becque | attention, confidence, Emotions, expectation, faith, Fear, Grace, guidance, Inner Peace, intention, Mindset, procrastination, remember, self-radiance, self-recognition, self-regulation, self-revelation, success, thriving, trust
The Hidden Game Your Mind has been Playing for Years Personal growth is rarely a straight climb. It’s more like Snakes & Ladders. Sometimes you leap forward – a breakthrough, a shift, a win. Other times, old programming hisses back: doubts, fears, habits,...
by Paul Becque | authenticity, business, clarity, confidence, connection, education, Emotions, Grace, grit, imposter syndrome, Inner Peace, Leadership, relationships, Self Care, self-recognition, self-regulation, State of Grace
Dealing with Difficult People Some people seem to have a talent for stirring the pot. They test patience, press buttons, and can drain your energy in minutes. But here’s the truth: you can navigate these encounters with calm confidence – without becoming a...
by Paul Becque | clarity, confidence, fulfilment, Grace, Inner Peace, Mindset, nirvana, strategies, success, Uncategorized
Stop Chasing Success. Start Choosing It Success isn’t a finish line or a stack of gleaming trophies – it’s a mosaic of experiences, choices and moments that shape a meaningful life. While money can smooth the path, true fulfilment is found in vibrant health,...
by Paul Becque | authenticity, confidence, Fear, imposter syndrome, Inner Peace, Leadership, Mindset, Neuroscience, overwhelm, procrastination, Productivity, strategies, Uncategorized
The Mindset Glitch Behind Imposter Syndrome Imposter syndrome is a bit like building your own stage, then suddenly feeling nervous about stepping into the spotlight. Even when you know you’ve earned your place, it’s totally normal for little doubts to show up –...
by Paul Becque | clarity, confidence, connection, Grace, Inner Peace, Mindset, self-realisation, self-reverence, State of Grace, Uncategorized
The Truth About Inner Peace (No Incense Required) Do you ever wonder what finding inner peace really means? It’s not about trying to control every part of your life or forcing your mind to be quiet. Think of peace as a frequency you can always come back to –...
by Paul Becque | action planning, business, clarity, connection, Mindset, Productivity, thriving
Are You Starting Your Day… or Surviving It? Your morning isn’t just a time slot. It’s the ignition switch for your mindset, energy and emotions. Think of it as the software boot-up for your day. If you don’t update the script, you keep repeating yesterday’s...
by Paul Becque | clarity, confidence, connection, Fear, Grace, imposter syndrome, Inner Peace, Mindset, Neurochange, Neuroscience, nirvana, procrastination, Self Care, self-recognition, self-revelation, State of Grace, thriving, Uncategorized
Self-recognition is a form of introspection, it isn’t self‑obsession – it’s a kind, curious journey inward. Think of it as dusting off a mirror that’s become foggy. You begin to see your own reflection clearly -your beliefs, impulses, and the quiet wisdom...
by Paul Becque | action planning, authenticity, confidence, connection, evolve, imposter syndrome, Mindset
Stop waiting to feel ready. Start here instead. Confidence isn’t a personality trait. It’s a by-product. Like heat from a fire, it shows up after you’ve done the thing you thought you couldn’t do. You don’t think your way into self-belief. You build it, moment by...
by Paul Becque | clarity, confidence, Emotions, evolve, Fear, Grace, grit, imposter syndrome, Inner Peace, Mindset, overwhelm, Productivity, Self Care, self-regulation
“Letting Go” as a High-Performance Strategy We’ve been taught that control equals success. But what if letting go is the real path forward? Trusting the process means leaning into uncertainty, stepping back from overthinking, and allowing space for life to surprise...
by Paul Becque | confidence, connection, Grace, Inner Peace, Mindset, Neuroscience, Productivity, Self Care, State of Grace, strategies
Discover the “Flow” and Become Laser Focused Flow is more than a buzzword – it’s a state of being. It’s when productivity or action becomes effortless and time bends around you. There’s no hesitation. No second-guessing. Just pure, uninterrupted momentum. In the...
by Paul Becque | authenticity, connection, procrastination, strategies, thriving
Burned Out or Plugged In? When you align with a purpose that excites and stretches you, your energy multiplies. Passion is a natural fuel source. You don’t need to force motivation – you’re pulled forward by clarity, meaning and service. Like rocket fuel, your...
by Paul Becque | authenticity, confidence, evolve, Grace, imposter syndrome, Leadership, Neuroscience, Productivity, self-recognition
Dress Rehearsal’s Over – It’s Show Time! Your future self isn’t a distant dream. It’s shaped by the habits, choices and mindset you practise today. The more consistently you think, feel and act like the person you want to become, the more natural it feels...
by Paul Becque | action, action planning, action steps, clarity, imposter syndrome, Leadership, Mindset, procrastination, Productivity, strategies
The Mindset Behind Achievable Goals A big vision inspires us, but it’s the small, consistent steps that bring it to life. Think of your goals like planting a tree. The vision is the oak. But the process is daily watering. Tiny actions. Quiet effort. With the right...
by Paul Becque | authenticity, clarity, confidence, Emotions, Fear, imposter syndrome, Inner Peace, Mental Health, Mindset, Neurochange, Neuroscience, overwhelm, procrastination, Self Care
The Two Voices That Shape Every Choice You Make Every day, we all have a conversation going on in our heads – a stream of thoughts that shapes how we feel, act and show up in the world. At the heart of this conversation are two voices: what I like to call the...
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